10 Great Reader Comments on Books
As the sun sets earlier and I find myself snuggling under my bedsheets before 9 p.m., I’ve been trying to ignore the siren call of doomscrolling and instead make my way through this touching motherhood memoir. If you, too, are in a bookish mood, please enjoy these recommendations from the most book-adoring people we know: the Cup of Jo community. Here are 10 gems…
On reading as a love language:
“We’re deep in the IVF trenches, so I’ve been a moody mess. My husband suggested I read old favorite books. Then he handed me my e-reader and said he’d recently added them. I’m smitten all over again!” — Erika
“The first time my now-husband and I ended up in bed together, I was bowled over when he asked if he could read me some of his favorite poems. I remember him reading Poe’s ‘The Raven’ from his phone and thinking ‘Oh, no, I’m going to marry this boy.’ He continues to amaze me, seven years later, with his sensitive way of taking in the world.” — Anne
On people who make reading feel special:
“I went to a tiny high school in the middle of Indiana cornfields. We had a mandatory reading list, but my English teacher started ‘sneaking’ off-list books to those of us who really loved reading. She introduced us to Memoirs of a Geisha, The Handmaid’s Tale, Interpreter of Maladies… We’d pass them around class and have conversations in the hallways about what we loved or hated. She’s still teaching, decades later, inspiring bigger worlds for mostly poor, rural kids. What magic teachers can bring.” — Jessica
“As a librarian, I find that nothing gives me more joy than matching someone with a book, especially if they’ve lost touch with reading for a while or don’t consider themselves ‘a reader.’ Everyone is a reader! We sometimes just need a little help finding the right story.” — Amanda
On offbeat book clubs:
“When my daughter was 16, she babysat our eight-year-old neighbor every Wednesday. They were kindred spirits and would go to the library and then a coffee shop, where they’d drink hot chocolate and read their stack of books. On the walk home, the little one would place my daughter’s hand on her head and say, ‘Can you steer me, please, so I can keep reading?’ My daughter’s comment to me, ‘I’ve never heard a more relatable request!’” — Ellie
“I own a small business that employs mostly young people, ages 16 to 22. I was tired of hearing how everyone is too distracted to read, so I started a summer read-a-thon. I made a progress chart, picked up star stickers for every 100 pages, and said the winner would get a $20 gift card to a local business. Now I can happily announce that my little ducklings have been talking 10x more about books and proudly reporting their pages to me. And I’ve been reading more, too!” — Meghan
On book goals:
“I’m making my way through The Guardian’s 100 best novels of all time. My current read is The Line of Beauty by Alan Hollinghurst, and I have 100 pages left of A House for Mr. Biswas by V.S. Naipaul. I find that leaving my phone on a different floor of the house helps speed reading up.” — Emma
On your next library hold:
“When I need something light and funny, I always reach for a book by a female comedian — Tina Fey, Mindy Kaling, they are brilliant! Get ready to laugh, nod along, and hug that book when you finish. Pro tip: treat yourself to a little candy while you read; I’m really into Sour Patch Kids right now.” — Bren
“I have been reading The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion by Beth Brower, and they are the most delightful thing I have read in YEARS. The writing is Jane Austen meets Enola Holmes — it’s laugh-out-loud funny and the characters are lovable (or scoundrels!) and jump right off the page. I read in paperback but switch to audio when I’m walking the dog or driving. The voice of a narrator is also important, and Genevieve Gaunt is brilliant.” — Lucy
On friendship:
“I went through a miscarriage this fall, so when my book club decided to read The Wedding People, my dear friend Katie suggested that she mark any pages that might be triggering. I thought she’d dog-ear entire pages, but girl went through with post-its and marked very specific passages! It was so thoughtful and still makes me weepy.” — Katie
What are your favorite books or reading memories? We’d love to hear. And here are all of Cup of Jo’s book recs on one page.
P.S. The best reader comments of all time, and what are your three favorite books?
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148 commentsSUGGESTIONS PLEASE FOR SIX-YEAR OLD BOOKWORM (not me ha) I’m thrilled that I’ve produced a six-year-old bookworm in my daughter Anna (I fell in love with that name reading Anna Karenina in my 20s,) and I smile every time she’s using her free time blowing through books. She’s begun reading chapter books, but I don’t know what to pick for a six-year-old reading perhaps around an age 7-8 level – she’s currently reading the Ramona and Beezus series I read as a kid – any suggestions? I just want to open up her options! In my medium-sized city in Australia (I’m Canadian) there’s a huge focus on Australian authors which is of course understandable, but the libraries only seem to carry a small section for young readers, and there aren’t many bookstores in this city very sadly. Would love some fun series suggestions – since she’s just started graduating from picture books (but thankfully still enjoys them), I think she’d be open to anything – fantasy, girl power, books marketed for boys – anything!
Doing the Lord’s work, Meghan!
Loving my current read An Infinite Love Story by Chanel Cleeton 💕 Historical fiction recs: When Sleeping Women Wake by Emma Pei Yin Liberty Street by Heather Marshall The Mountains Sing by Nguyen Phan Que Mai Red Clay by Charles B. Fancher The Forgotten Midwife by Laura Anthony This Here is Love by Princess Joy L. Perry Memoirs: Redeeming Justice by Jarrett Adams A Knock at Midnight by Brittany K. Barnett Finding Me by Viola Davis (highly recommend the audiobook!) What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo (the audiobook was amazing!) Know My Name by Chanel Miller American Radical by Tamer Elnoury Savor by Fatima Ali Romance: The Last Love Note by Emma Grey Summer Romance by Annabel Monaghan Brighter than Before by Courtney Walsh The Seven Year Slip by Ashley Poston The Good Part by Sophie Cousens Thrillers: Steve Cavanagh’s books especially his Eddie Flynn series! Eddie is an ex-conman turned defense attorney 👌 My top 3 are Thirteen, Fifty-Fifty and The Accomplice Next of Kin by Kia Abdullah Heart of Glass by Jennifer Hillier Happy reading! 🤍
Just for fun we started a family reading chart, similar to Megan. Every family member, adults included, earns a star on the chart for books completed. Everything counts, as long as you finish it- audiobooks, picture books, novels- and two stars are awarded when older sibling reads to younger :) when we hit 100, the kids picked a fun outing. I thought it would be a fun winter doldrums activity but we have kept going strong- we are at 345 books for the year so far, have visited multiple trampoline parks as prizes, haha, and my kids have already set a goal to read 500 books in 2027. Sometimes you just need a sticker chart and group enthusiasm for the win!
I got turned on to Emma M Lion in the original post where you drew Lucy’s comment from and I’m currently finishing book 8! “Jane Austen meets Enola Holmes” was such a vivid and compelling description that it stuck in my head for a week until I finally went and tracked down the books. The audiobook narration is masterful.
Yay for more EML lovers! Gosh they are so good. I’m reading the series and planning a party for when the next is released!
Is anyone else obsessed with “The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion” series by Beth Brower? Did the COJ book lover community already discuss this? I recently devoured this series and found the heroine, Emma, to be exactly what I needed in this moment, funny, lovable, brave, and determined. The found family is heartwarming, the romance is exceptional, and writing sublime.
I agree 100%!
Reading Volume 2 right now! I’m preordering the next ones :)
Ok, *slightly* off topic, but your comment about snuggling into bed early sparked something I want to share: my Frankenmuth Wool Comforter is the best splurge ev-AR. I chuckle contentedly every time I crawl into bed since the temps started dropping. My favorite reading memory has to be reading out loud to my kiddos when they were small… and even not so small! I loved reading them the books I had loved as a kid (they were super into Narnia, less into the Little House books) as well as books I first encountered as a grown-up (I read them most of the Discworld books! And yes, I paused to explain the jokes!)
Oooooh now I am so curious about this comforter!! Thanks for the rec x
It’s like a down duvet, but instead of down it’s filled with wool. I bought a California Design Den duvet cover from Amazon. It’s like curling up under a giant marshmallow!
I can second this recommendation! It keeps you cool or warm, depending on the season – it’s like magic!
I googled this immediately! Made in the US, bonus! I’m looking for a new comforter for my new bed, so thank you!
Joanna? Possibly put this comforter on your “Sister in law who loves to crawl into bed with a good book” Christmas list?
My third grader has been tearing through the graphic novel version of The Babysitters Club over the past year, and I told her to just wait until she gets into chapter books because entire worlds will open up to her. The other night when I was tucking her in, she whipped out a chapter book and said, “MOM. You were right! I’m a chapter book girl now! I read it and imagine everything in my head! I have an amazing imagination!”
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Check her dresser drawers for candy! Did anyone else read these books and hide candy like Claudia? Please tell me I’m not alone :)
I just started American Hagwon the new novel by Min Jin Lee (she wrote Pachinko).
Oh, I want to read this so bad.
The noiser podcast of Pride and Prejudice and Emma read by Dame Julie Andrews has been getting me through the work days!
It is still early (about 6 months in) but I texted a group of friends and started a silent reading club. I may have read about the idea on COJ, we all get together once a month for two hours and read our own books. Usually we chat for the first hour (sometimes depending on who shows up it, we chat the whole time) and then read for the second hour. I love a low stakes standing hang out and we usually at least talk about the books we are enjoying/authors/trade books. It is great!
Thanks to your post, I just ordered a personalized T-shirt that says, “Can you steer me, please, so I can keep reading?”
Omg I love that!
Yesterday I called my 10 year old son to ask how his day was going. He answered in the most happy, proud voice – like he just won a football game – “Mom! I just read for like 40 minutes and it was like no time passed at all! It was so cool!” What a joy to raise a voracious reader.
I’ve been working on a few of those “best of” lists for a couple years now — the PopChart 100 Essential Novels scratch-off, which I got as a gift in Dec 2024, and the New York Times 100 Greatest Novels of the 21st Century list, which debuted in Fall 2024 as well. I alternate between picks from each of those and books that are based on my own personal proclivities. It’s a good way to keep your worldview open and try new things! I also am in a book club that chooses a different theme every month. Sometimes it feels like a juggling act trying to get it all read, but I luckily have a very long commute by train :)
One of my greatest pleasures as a mom is that my son, now 9, has inherited (absorbed?) my love a reading. There is no greater question than: “Can you come snuggle read?” whereby we wedge into the corner of the section under a cozy blanket and read our respective novels side by side. We still read aloud every night. The current selection is “The Dog Who Wouldn’t Be” by Farley Mowatt. Team: It’s a banger! The “old fashion” cadence and vocab are a delight to read aloud; it reminds me so much of my late grandfather’s story telling.
I loved The Boat Who Wouldn’t Float and Never Cry Wolf by Farley Mowat! Just added The Dog Who Wouldn’t Be to my to-read list :)
I’m sorry Meghan but if you host a read-a-thon I think you’re legally required to reward them with Pizza Hut.
omg yes!
Lol!!! Yes please. What a nostalgia trip
lol! This makes me want to reach out to my local pizza spots to ask if we could set up an all-ages summer reading challenge
Hahaha this was the inspo but we have dietary restrictions in our midst!! Adorably the winner chose to spend her $20 at the local bookstore.
I so relate to the challenge of getting adolescent boys to read. In this respect my Dad was a life saver. Dad’s advice was to get hold of an anthology of short stories and some non fiction books and to just leave them lying around so that my son when bored or finding himself with some time on his hands would just pick them up and before he knew it would be reading. The back of the toilet, the coffee table near the TV and a bedside table were all spots Dad recommended. I also found that leaving a book or two on the side of the desk where my son did his homework was a good spot-read anything to avoid actually doing mandatory homework! The second part of Dad’s recommendation is CRITICAL! Under no circumstances should one notice much less comment on the fact that you have observed any indications that there is reading happening!!! This sounds scary but remember you are already directing consumption because you are choosing what is lying around to be read. Finally I share my own stroke of genius as a method for finding books that are not junk and might appeal. There was a very good boys prep school near where I lived and by going on their web site I was able to find the reading list for their summer reading requirements! Another summer when the list was behind a students only pay wall I was able to get the lady at a nearby bookstore to share the list with me. Mothers have to think strategically! Almost everything was available at my local library!
I love this! Great suggestions – I hadn’t thought of school suggested reading lists, thank you!
I read my first Alice Hoffman book over 30 years ago…I had jury duty , and picked up a copy of Illumination Night at a bookstore near the courthouse. I was enchanted with her imagery, making the ordinary magical ! About 5 years ago, I had an out patient surgery . COVID protocols were still in place, so my husband couldn’t wait with me. I brought along my Kindle and re read Practical Magic , and was amazed how comforting the words were…like an old friend sitting there, holding my hand! Hoffman’s books are a huge part of my life…a new book from her is a major look forward to!
+1 to books by female comedians, Bren! Listening to them on audiobooks so they are reading their words is the absolute best. Tina Fey’s voice describing her dad is so good I can hear in my head as I type this, many many years later.
I just found that they loaded moby dick on apple podcasts, it opens with Tilda Swinton reading the first chapter “Call me Ishmael” – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-moby-dick-big-read/id561715706
I am reading the Annotated Pride and Prejudice (annotated by David Shapard) and it is an absolute delight. I have read P&P an embarrassing number of times and this annotated version has so much extra information. Highly recommend.
P&P is one of those books that is so layered, with so many double meanings, that it just gets richer on each reread. No shame in that!! Putting this annotated copy on hold at the library for myself, thank you for the recommendation!
Ooh this sounds right up my alley! Ordering now. Thank you! And hi to another Meghan with an h who loves Jane Austen xx
I find that in the age of everything-immediately-accessible-all-the-time, leaning into the library holds helps me learn to enjoy the need to wait for a well loved or popular book. Or choose something older that is available and has stood the test of time. Everytime it feels like a little antidote to modern life.
ugh YES and getting to do a little errand? A free little errand to the library to pick up my real books? the BEST
Agreed and flirting with the clerk at the library desk while you pick up your hold (a lifelong pursuit for me despite having lived in many different places with many different library clerks)
seconded!
Oh yes! Often the physical book has a much mucher shorter wait than the ebook. And an excuse to go to the library and pick up other books. We pay a separate tax for the library on our property taxes here and I think is is worth every single penny
Oh how I could write an ode to the library! I love to pick up the popular book I can’t wait to read, of course, but I also borrow cookbooks, magazines, coffee table books or big books of art to leave laying around for my kid to pick up and leaf through, Playaway audiobooks for the kids … the list goes on. So many things to love about the library!
Yes this is my experience with Libby – though it’s a digital platform I am forced to wait, which makes it a thrill when something arrives and motivates me to read it. Made me realize we’ve lost a lot of surprise in our consumption of culture.
I read Operating Instructions by Anne Lamott several years ago. I really like her nonfiction books.
A good memoir is like living with a friend, Operating Instructions was like that for me. My cousin and I have a shared note where we write the books we read and a brief rating out of five. Her ratings are the funniest thing. After I recommended she read ‘The Hearts Invisible Furies’ she wrote: The hearts invisible furies – actually very lovely despite dire content and personal tragedies within (4/5).
I LOVED the Emma M Lion books, as have all of the many people to whom I’ve enthusiastically recommended them. My advice is to not be deterred by book 1, as it’s the least engaging of the bunch, and to consider the audiobooks because the narrator does a brilliant job. The audiobooks are not on Audible, so it’s a great motivation to switch to a non-Amazon platform (I love libro.fm, which funnels certain proceeds to an independent bookstore of your choice). AND they’re lovely and engaging while avoiding triggering topics so they’re a perfect distraction when you’re going through something (break up, grief, IVF etc). God, what can’t these books do?!
I recently listened to Emma M. Lion on Audible, so while I totally support listening to these books on alternative platforms, I just thought I would mention it for Audible users.
I am also loving the Emma M Lion audiobooks! All 8 are available through my library on Hoopla! They are so cozy and fun. I’m about halfway through book 2.
Yes! I was able to listen to all the audiobooks on Libby through my library. The narrator is amazing.
It’s banned books week in the United States and we’re currently 8 hours into a 12 hour read out at our university library and I love all this book love!
Janelle, just here to say that I love Operating Instructions. I have read it a number of times at different points in my own life and it always delivers.
Add Jessi Klein to your list of female comedian’s books to read! If you are a mom you H A V E to read I’ll Show Myself Out, you will never again feel so seen or laugh so hard— I’m talking side stitches from laughing. And you absolutely must do the audio because Jessi narrates it herself and her delivery is the pinnacle of comedy!
OMG the essay about feeling like Teddy Ruxpin while reading to her child. I’ve never felt so seen!
Loved I’ll show myself out”, and this year I really really enjoyed the wit of Meg Mason’s earlier memoir on early motherhood “Say it again in a nice voice”
Operating Instructions is such a beautiful book! I also picked up Waiting for Birdy by Catherine Newman recently. As a mom to young children, I love reading about mothers and how they experience motherhood. But I decidedly do not like parenting books! I also really enjoyed Great with Child By Beth Ann Fennelly, which Jo recommended many years ago!
These three are my care package for new mums! You have excellent taste (or maybe we just read the same blog). You may also like Elizabeth and her German Garden. Totally different but similar in tone.
@nicola, I just looked up Elizabeth and Her German Garden, sounds right up my alley as I am a novice gardener! And thank you, I do think it is just CoJ, rather than my taste!
I’ve recently retired and have more time to read. I missed not having enough time while I was working, commuting, raising a family, etc. My son and his wife bought me the Elena Ferrante 4-part Neopolitan series beginning with “My Brilliant Friend”. I don’t know how I missed these books that span the 60-year friendship of two women. They are fantastic! I’m going to watch the HBO miniseries after I’m finished.
Wish I could read these books for the first time!! That is a thoughtful gift and an excellent way to return to reading more! Enjoy. :)
There is no better feeling than being addicted to the book I’m reading. My husband and I were just joking that while we know it is better than doom scrolling on social media, it is no less of a time suck
yeah you know when I’m bringing the book into the bathroom with me we are in pretty deep, lol
I just read a banger of a book that I loved: Under Story by Chloe Benjamin. You have to squint a little and not consider every detail of the feasibility of the imagined world, but I thought it was so creative and thought provoking and lovely.
The comment about Sour Patch Kids made me think of A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, “happy as only a little girl could be with a fine book and a little bowl of candy”
I am currently reading one and listening to another on audio while driving. Bedtime read is unexpectedly awesome: The Pillagers Guide to Arctic Pianos by Kendra Langford Shaw (she’s a Billings, MT county councilwoman! That’s just a fun fact, lol). The audio book is a genre I usually avoid like the plague: WW2 and who knows how I even came across it, but the rec must have been compelling and, in fact, I am really engaged. It’s about a group of women codebreakers and the intersection of their lives and work during this war: The Rose Code by Kate Quinn (narrated very well by Saskia Maarleveld). On another note, I work with children and am looking for the best, age appropriate book rec for a 14 teen I work with who likes the horror genre, something I know nothing about. Somehow she landed on an absolutely horrible book that I am not even going to name here but it is a popular “dark sex” trilogy. “Dark romance” theme – not sure why anyone would want to read that (think: rape fantasies then marrying the one who plays that out – yuck and not appropriate for anyone, let alone a newly 14 year old.) I convinced her it was not appropriate for children and she thankfully let me dispose of it after flipping through a few pages and agreeing with me. Does anyone know of something that might suit her interest in dark themes? I wondered if The Handmaid’s Tale might work (haven’t read it myself yet or seen the series but understand the basic gist.). Anything thoughts? Thank you! Can anyone suggest something
If she likes horror, I’d recommend the Anna Dressed in Blood duology or the Three Dark Crowns series by Kendare Blake. The first is more spooky paranormal ghost hunting and the second is more dark fantasy, but they both feature tough, interesting female characters of all types, have their insanely creepy moments, and won’t be inappropriately racy for a 14-year-old reader.
The Hunger Games used to fit this description but now I think what you’re asking for is more true horror and less dystopian but if she’s steerable you could try that direction, or maybe gothic– that’s weird and gross but not truly horror.
Ah, yes. I have two voracious teenage daughters. I think The Handmaid’s Tale themes lend themselves to a little older audience. FYI, there’s sex on the page. So you may want to read it first. (You won’t regret it.) Some age appropriate “dark fantasy” series: *A Curse So Dark and Lonely (first in Cursebreakers series), by Brigid Kemmerer *Cinder (first in The Lunar Chronicals series ) by Marissa Meyer * Little Thieves (first in series) by Margaret Owen In the suspense/horror arena: * T Kingfisher YA novels, in particular A Wizard’s Guide to Defensive Baking (which starts with a dead body in the first line) * Warbreaker by Brandon Sanderson (the protagonists are two excellently written and very different sisters) *ALONE by Megan E. Freeman *Agatha Christie – or books inspired by her, like Ten by Gretchen McNeil I haven’t read these but they are popular with the age and on theme: * Six of Crows/Shadow and Bone * The Hunger Games
lol, that should say “voracious READERS for teenage daughters”
I LOVED the Fear Street novels by R.L. Stine growing up! I’m sure they haven’t aged perfectly but they were definitely PG and scary!
I second the recommendation for T Kingfisher!
You could consider Gideon the Ninth for her. Excellent writing. Dark but not gratuitous. Darkly funny.
When I meet up with friends, we often start fuming about politics. So I’ve started conversations instead with ‘What are you reading? Any recommendations?’ It is a kind of therapy for us both. Books bring joy!
I feel the love language! I’m reading The Sympathizer and listening to history books on the Vietnam War. Thank Dog for podcasts! And yet, I can get into audiobooks, it’s bizarre. I’m jealous of people for whom that works. Although the other day I heard some tweens talking about audiobooks they “read” and assumed they were being tongue in cheek, but they assured me audiobooks are reading. This is wild to me—they could be illiterate and get through their books just fine. I’m not clutching my pearls about it, just think it’s bizarre and has me wondering about the ramifications.
You can read with your ears and you can read with your eyes. Whether you listen to a book or read a book, you still need to process the content, connect disparate ideas, draw conclusions. In some ways, listening is harder because you need to store things in your memory without going back and re-reading them. Here’s a quick article from The Harvard Gazette that might be helpful framing: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2026/03/audiobooks-dont-really-count-as-reading-think-again/ Personally, I prefer to read fiction with my eyes and non-fiction, especially memoir, with my ears. But all reading is great!
I’m in no way saying that listening requires less, is inferior, is less rigorous—that’s not my argument! I love listening to stories. My surprise is at the shift in the meaning of the word “reading”. My point is that some people think it actually IS reading. Like, the definition of reading is changing. Literacy is changing.
I’m here as a librarian to tell you that audiobooks and being read to absolutely “count” as reading. It is not merely “listening to stories,” as you dismiss it. In fact, it’s the way most people throughout history have learned new information. Literacy is a relatively recent invention but there are extant oral traditions going back sometimes thousands of years before writing.
I’m also jealous of those who can do all kinds of audiobooks, but especially fiction (though I absolutely love reading them, so I don’t mind, it’s just wanting to keep going when I have to wash dishes or fold laundry). Audiobooks are challenging for me because I’m not an auditory processor or learner, at all. The only audiobooks that have I have completed fully are memoirs (Ina Garten, Britney Spears, Stanley Tucci, Lena Dunham, Michelle Obama, to name a few)- I did go back and read each one with my “eyes”, as well. When I was a teacher, I always had students that thrived with audiobooks and could participate in the class discussions and assignments so thoughtfully when listening and comprehending was the focus. My daughter, as well, at 6 can comprehend beautiful picture books and early chapter books, and have really complex thoughts about the text, but cannot read them independently. I wouldn’t say she read Charlotte’s Web independently, but we’ve read Charlotte’s Web, just like my kindergarten class did. To the thought about literacy is changing… oral tradition is the earliest form of literacy besides images and symbols as language. Just like language, it evolved, but there are so many forms of literacy.
I loved The Sympathizer…absolutely amazing book!
Allison – the oral history and traditions factor is what made me accept audiobooks! Stories were passed down outloud for maaaaany years. Also, with reading to my son – since he’s five and just learning to read himself, if me reading to him counts, then why wouldn’t someone reading to me?? Thanks for this perspective!
I’m so not dismissing audiobooks, and am aware of oral histories and do not think the written word is superior.
My daughter was learning to read last year in first grade and would get frustrated she wasn’t reading as quickly as she wanted. I kept repeating that reading is one of the greatest pleasures in life and once she was over the hump she would agree. This year all I hear is,”let me finish this last page!”
Thank you for this! My son is in first grade and I’m so ready for him to be reading on his own, it’s helpful to be reminded that it’s around the corner.
Erika- best wishes on your IVF journey!! I read only light hearted books and it definitely helped to escape! (Also silly shows, cozy video games) He’s a keeper!!
I just finished a read aloud of Mrs. Frisby & the Rats of NIMH with my kids and they loved it. We read aloud at meals a lot, to avoid chatter and guide conversation. If you have kids (or kids you care for), I’d love to know what you’re reading together!
Here are some series we have enjoyed. My boys are 7 and 8 – wayside school series – Henry Huggins – Harry Potter – boxcar children – toys go out We have enjoyed many more but that’s off the top of my head. We still also love picture books! They love to read the I survived series, wings of fire, diary of a wimpy kid, Nathan hales hazardous tales, and many more! My kids looooove reading
The Millicent Quibb series by Kate McKinnon is excellent! And she reads the audiobook with funny voices. My kids are 10 and 14, and we can’t wait to listen to book 3 on a long drive this weekend!
I love Mrs Frisby (and so did the kids)! Some of our favorites: Wayside School books The Phantom Tollbooth Ribsy Wonder The Wild Robot Farmer Boy
My son is 7 and we are on the third book of Grace Lin’s Where the Mountain Meets the Moon series. Excellent books that share traditional Chinese folk stories and the characters are loosely related to one another (like the girl in Book 1 becomes the grandmother in Book 2). Others we have read with great success Klawde: Evil Alien Warlord Cat series is very fun. Wild Robot series Charlottes Web Chronicles of Narnia The Little Princess (An Osbourne shortened version) The Land of Stories series The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane
For this age group, I suggest the often missed, “Gregor the Overlander” series, but especially the first two books. Suzanne Collins (Hunger Games) wrote the books, and they’re fun to read together!
How does this work? Do you eat first and read while they eat? Or do you read while pausing for bites?
My son and I read a ton and this year we started The Penderwicks. I highly recommend the series
Clare Agra, I usually finish eating first and then read a little. I always feed myself first, though. It keeps us at the table together longer. On summer and early fall evenings we eat outside and my kids either just sit and listen or go climb a tree and listen. It’s low pressure.
Peach, We also just finished The Wild Robot Protects, the third in the series. All three books were a hit and I had so much fun doing voices. My kids watched the first movie and for the first time ever they all agreed they liked the book better!
I realized I was falling in love with my then-boyfriend-now-husband early on when I went home without him for the holidays. We’d call each other every night and he’d read to me over the phone until I fell asleep. He still reads out loud to me more than a decade later.
that is sooooo romantic <3
Love this post. I am currently reading Orbital, The God of Small Things, A Different Kind of Power and the Finest Hotel in Kabul amongst other things. I read a lot together but it is so fun. I get my love of reading from my mother and brother who are avid readers.
man, sometimes i tear up about how much reading has saved my life. i feel like i’ve learned so much from peering into someone else’s world via a good (or even bad!) book. what a delight to the soul.
I recently asked a friend if she finds words or music or both combined more emotional. For her it was both combined, for me it is words. I have so many sentences in my head from books or movies that I feel if I were an actor, I could well up in a sec thinking about them. Words, god I am so glad we humans made them up. At least that was really really good.
Your comment just made me emotional too. I read ‘Raising Hare’ in a difficult time recently and it was a window of pure light.
I went to high school in the rust belt in the 90s and in all my schooling since (I’m now a professor myself) my all-time favorite class was year 4 of Spanish. There were only 5 of us in the class, it was elective, and we spent the entire year translating Don Quixote, word for word, line by line. Each day when we met in class and we’d all work collaborativly and on the weekends we’d divvy up the chapters and review them with each other on Mondays. Our teacher would be next door teaching another class and would periodically check in on us, but we were largely on our own. We would howl with laughter at our translation attempts “he’s fighting….a windmill?!” (I’d never read magical realism-adjacent stuff before…) and now, years and years later, I’m studying Spanish again. I have a nearly 300 day streak on duolingo and I’ve just reached the point where what I’m currently learning surpasses my vintage high school foundation. I spent my honeymoon in Spain 10 years ago and while there, I sent my former high school teacher a postcard, but really I can’t ever thank her enough for that beloved class. I loved that book!!
This is beautiful Alex! I took ancient Homeric Greek my freshman year of college thinking we were going to read Greek plays. Joke was on me – it was learning a dead language and we spent the semester translating The Iliad.
I have a three year old daughter who cannot get enough of books. She will sit in her room with a stack of books next to her and just “read” them one by one. I’m also loving reading my childhood favorites to her like the Berenstain Bears, Owl at Home, Magic School Bus, Beatrix Potter, and have a running list of all the books I can’t wait to introduce her to when she’s old enough. Little Women, Anne of Green Gables, the Narnia series, Ramona Quimby, Boxcar Children… the list goes on. Because of all of this, I feel like I’ve been more in touch with who I was as a little girl and it feels good! It’s inspired me to get back to reading for fun!
Books to add to that magical list that I wish I’d had as a kid: the Penderwicks, Gone-Away Lake, the Chronicles of Prydain, Tom’s Midnight Garden, The Swish of the Curtain, and Noel Streatfeild’s Shoes books. Paying it forward to the reading kids!
Midge, I’ve never heard of any of those! Will check them out!
My favorite book memory is how my three high school best friends and I used to pass books around to each other and how obsessed we were with being able to hang out and talk about them. The ones I remember are: Edie: An American Biography (we all wanted to be Edie); Girl by Blake Nelson (we all thought Portland, OR sounded so hip); Drugstore Cowboy (we loved the movie, loved the memoir); The Handmaid’s Tale and Cat’s Eye; What’s Eating Gilbert Grape, which started out as a short story in Sassy, which of course we all read; Go Ask Alice; and all the books written by the girlfriends and lesser known women of The Beat Generation, because we weren’t into most of the male ones, but the women wrote some excellent memoirs – Joyce Johnson’s and Hettie Jones’s were my faves. These friends were basically my kindred spirits at the time, and we got through all the high school b.s. by really bonding over our taste in books and movies.
Sassy!!!!!!!
I have a feeling we would have gotten along well in high school!
@Meghan: bravo. i LOVE this!
libby on my kjndle for the win!
I am dabbling in community organizing for the Palestinian community in Arizona. I caught wind that author Hannah Assadi was coming to town to tour her new novel Paradiso 17 (inspired by her late father’s Palestinian refugee experience). The beautiful book also takes place prominently in AZ, so I knew I had to bring her to our group. She was more than willing. Nervous to perform as a good event facilitator, I attended her more formal bookshop event two days before the one I held. I sat in the front row, smiling, waiting. A gentleman sat next to me, leaned over, and boasted the author was his niece. He then looked at my face and we recognized each other. He was an old friend of my father’s! It was a reminder of how small our world is–that books are connectors. Our event turned into a family affair!
That’s beautiful!
My oldest son came after many years of trying and IVF hell.. He came out and I felt like a missing piece of my soul has showed up.. since he was a baby, he has loved reading.. now that he is ten and those pre teen moods sometimes makes me miss him even when he is sitting in front of me. To keep our connection feeling alive, we have created a book club..we take turns picking booking and we go to a cafe and read together. Currently reading his pick. Space case by Stuart Gibbs. a Who Done It novel based on the moon.. Its been such a dream to be able to read things together still and stay connected.
Stuart Gibbs! I read aloud all the Fun Jungle books with my now 12-year old, and little bro just got into his Spy Series. If you’re looking for more whodunits, their class just started The Swifts, first in a series, and he’s loving it. I’m about to start reading along so we can discuss.
My mom read all the animorphs books along with me! I genuinely think reading with me was the greatest thing she did for me
I agree that sharing reading suggestions with my kids is such a special connection! I enjoy seeing what they enjoy, and their recommendations definitely puts a great variety into reading. I’m currently catching up on a batch of suggestions from all of them: “The Inquisitor’s Tale: Or, The Three Magical Children and Their Holy Dog,” “The Book Thief,” and “NPCs” It’s been a fun batch!
Commenter Sara said “I can’t wait to forget it enough to read it again,” and I FEEL that in my SOUL. Sometimes I’ll pull gently at the thread of a memory to see how long it is, It’s a lovely day when I finally remember just the FEELING of a treasured book and not its details. I can read it again for the very first time.
A re-read of a beloved book is like a balm to my soul. Thinking about rereading Pachinko before I dive into Min Jin Lee’s new book!
It is so wonderful to see that Emma M Lion keeps getting more and more shout outs on COJ and elsewhere… it feels like the little indie book series that is finally getting the praise it deserves! Love the audiobooks and I’m rereading the series a second time after having read them last year, they are that cozy and wonderful, a perfect autumn and winter read. Aside from that I am rereading Northanger Abbey for the first time since I was 16 years old, still as charming and lovely as ever! And I am holding off reading American Hagwon for a few weeks (although I desperately want to read it) because I plan to have it be the main book I read while in China and South Korea. Anyone else pick books that are set in the places they are traveling too? I love doing that, it really can help with getting a sense of a place!
Also loving Emma M Lion! Just started Volume 5. My library had all copies available when I started a few weeks ago and now there are holds on some of them! I think word is spreading. And yes to saving a book for a particular time! I got to read HP 5 for the first time in England, on a canal boat, as we floated through the English countryside, and there never has been a more ideal reading experience.
I do that on almost every vacation—it has introduced me to so many phenomenal books that I would never have encountered otherwise. Especially books written about/author who resides in each state.
Word is definitely spreading about EML – check out the NYT feature about Beth Brower from last month!
Yes! Read John of John while in the Hebrides this year and it completely made the vacation!
A real treasure to read is “Down A Garden Path” by Karla Dornacher with beautiful illustrations. A delight for the soul as well as a feast for the eye. Given to me as a retirement gift; it is one if my truly special possessions!!!
I saw a clip going around on instagram of Helen Mirren hoping to work with Genevieve Gaunt (the narrator of the Emma M. Lion audiobooks.) She really IS that good! It was delightful to see her reaction to Helen mentioning her.
Yes to Amanda! Bless librarians and the work they do to keep our kids reading. My own children are big readers but it takes so much time to keep them with it… the library visits, finding new books, tracking the holds, poring over lists of recs you’ve already read or seen for new ideas, paying for the ones that get lost haha. I’m a high school teacher and was recently asking my sophomores for book recs for my 6th grader at home and they all piled around gushing about their favorite series (Percy Jackson! Dragonwatch! Land of Stories! Hunger Games!) and when I asked if they still read there were crickets. One commented that he felt like he’d read all of the ones that interest him. How sad! It takes some work to find the next great read, even for us adults, and harder still for kids who are still figuring stuff out, so I am so grateful to adults who are nudging kids along so they can hold onto an interest that brings such richness and joy and wonder to their lives.
You might not be looking for book recs for your students, but if you are, I read The Golden Compass around that time (all of His Dark Materials, actually) and looooved them.
LOL, as someone always trying to keep enough books on deck for my kids to read – including a 6th grade boy – I’m joining you in the appreciation for librarians and extremely jealous of being able to mine a classroom of high schoolers for their recommendations! It really does take effort to figure out what you want to read next! Especially daunting when you’ve aged out of your favorite and familiar books. In particular, I feel like YA can seem very limited since big publishers kinda market three types of YA books at a time so a scan of covers seems like a sea of sameness. Someone on a previous reading post said one of their tried and true methods for getting out of a reading slump was to re-read a favorite. Maybe asking them to reread an old favorite (you can frame it as preparation for selling the book to a middle schooler) will bring back the spark. Or maybe they can get a recommendation from an adult in their lives on what they liked to read when they were 16. (For me, it was Michael Crichton, Alexandre Dumas, and Agatha Christie.)
Some high school YA recs that are age appropriate but it still fun: – Inheritance Games series by Jennifer Lynn Barnes (mysteries and puzzles) – Renegades by Marissa Meyer (superheroes)
I recently re-discovered the library hold system (i know! i know! but i’m not a patient person!). I have to laugh at how fast and furious my books are rolling in. The sympathetic librarian reminded me that our system does not charge for overdue books, so the due date is more of a suggestion? Nope! i’m not going to be THAT person. i’m determined to get those books read on time and back in circulation (currently reading The Magician by Colm Toibin–a Jo suggestion)
I do find the due dates, even if they aren’t hard and fast, are really motivating!
Do you know you can put a delay in the holds? That has saved me a few times from an avalanche of books. I tend to have the hold ‘starting’ a few months after the previous one.
Here’s a tip for everyone who signs out digital books from the library and aren’t finished by the due date – put your device on airplane mode and it won’t disappear! Of course, you likely would need to read on a separate device other than your primary phone.
sorry but unrelated – did anyone else love “the drama” movie as much as i did?
Also unrelated but that scene was filmed in my favorite coffee shop here in Boston, called Tatte. It’s become a chain in recent years and now has many more locations, and so far the quality seems to have held up? I get nervous though, you know how these things go
I work for Tatte and coordinated the shoot with the production company for this scene. They kept a lot of Tatte merch and product in the shot. Was a wild experience! It required a bunch of finagling because this is at the Copley cafe, in the John Hancock, so there was a lot of extra red tape.
It’s a very thought-provoking movie, with great performances. I still think about it.
I love how being known as a reader amongst my friends and colleagues means they often come to me with their latest reads, or asking for recommendations. One friend said she thought that encouraging people to read was “my calling” and I was so touched by that. If all I end up doing in life is connecting people with books they love then I think that might be a life well lived.
Aw! Suggesting someone a book that they end up loving is so satisfying. What a great thing to be good at!
Wow Meghan! Way to inspire. My TBR stack is too high, so even though I want to read “East of Eden” and “Sense & Sensibility” for the TV adaptations, I’m not. Currently reading “The Astral Library” for book club, which is OK.
EAST OF EDEN. My students have to read it for summer reading and while I am their Chemistry teacher, I try to keep abreast of what they are reading for their English classes and oh, if East of Eden doesn’t just have it all. I can’t wait to forget it enough to read it again.
Definitely make time for East of Eden, it is a masterpiece!!! The last paragraph (the last line, really) will take your breath away.
Somebody I love reading poetry to me. Oufh, I miss this so much, now that I read about it. It is crazy how often I think I am in a more or less stable life equilibrium and then I read a thing like that and pang!, yearning reaches a new high. But thank you anyway, it is good to feel again what the heart truly wants.
“It is good to feel again what the heart truly wants…” oh boy, there’s a poetic line that’s going to stick with me for a while.