My Paris Packing List
What do you pack for trips? In early May, I’m heading to Paris for a mix of work and pleasure, and I’m really looking forward to it. I don’t think I’ve ever been to Paris in the spring — past trips were in the winter — and I can’t wait to see flowers blooming! Here’s what I’m packing in my carry-on, and I’d love to hear your list…
1. When we were abroad a few years ago, I spotted women wearing very oversized shirts, and I fell in love with the effortlessly chic look. I have this white one to mix and match with the rest of my suitcase.
2. T-shirts shirts fold up into the teeniest squares, so I bring a mini stack of white ones, plus a striped long-sleeve, to rotate through the week. Le Bon Shoppe tees fit SO well.
3. Along with well-made basics, I also love bringing a delicate, pretty piece to wear when the mood strikes. This floral top floats on your skin, it feels like a kiss. (There are a bunch on Poshmark and eBay, too.)
4. Do you have anything you’ve worn countless times? I just realized that, for the past 9-10 years, I’ve brought this thin navy sweater on every single trip! It’s light enough to wear year-round, and versatile enough to wear on a plane, to a nice dinner, wherever you want. Glad to report that my cost-per-wear at this point is like $1.
5. Two pairs of jeans: one blue, one black. This black style is especially great — fits so, so well and has enough stretch to almost feel like sweatpants.
6. Barn jackets are all over NYC, and this white one with a corduroy collar feels so fresh for spring. The fit’s a little big, so maybe size down if you try it!
7. I’ve lived in a silky blue shirt this winter (evidence A, B), so when I found out they make a dress version, I was THRILLED. Spring uniform, unlocked.
8. For drinks and dinners — both at home and on trips — I’m looking forward to slipping on this lovely dress. Just add freckled shoulders:)
9. My trusty Away rolling carry-on, of course.
10. And pajamas for padding around the rental apartment and making buttery toast in the morning.
11. Finally, I’m bringing white sneakers for walking all over the city. This particular pair is cushioned and comfy enough to avoid blisters and achy feet.
12. Plus, pink ballet flats. This pair is splurgy, but these two are also nice: square and round. Sidenote: My friend Alison wears actual ballet slippers around the house, and they’re so cute!
What do you always bring on trips? I’d love to hear.
P.S. Last year’s England packing list, and what’s your #1 travel tip?
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165 commentsI do like your choice! But I would rather grab a softshell to feel comfortable in a windy day
Nice packing list. Although it is more than what I take to Europe. I like to travel with a small backpack (from Everlane) only. I’ve been burned too many times with a roller bag (i.e. doesn’t fit in the lockers at the art museum in Amsterdam when you are going straight from the museum to Belgium). Lately I bring only one pair of pants, two nice shirts for sightseeing that also work for dinners out, and one flowy dress for day or night. I wear a lightweight blazer on the plane which functions as the coat on the trip. Last time in Europe I bought oven mitts as a souvenir. They took up nearly half of my backpack on the way home! But worth it. We still use them. :)
Oooooh this means it’s almost time for my favorite unofficial CoJ series, ‘Things Jo Spotted People Wearing in Paris’ !! Can’t wait to see what chic things are trending
Agreed!!
No style suggestions, but I JUST got back from Paris last night and 1000% recommend a dinner or lunch reservation at Kubri. Phenomenal.
Thank you! Looks fab. Just booked for July!
I loved reading through everyone’s helpful packing tips on my leisurely Sunday morning. Here are some of mine: – I too use an Away carry-on. And my personal item is a Tumi backpack with adjustable, comfortable shoulder straps, a padded compartment for my laptop, and lots of compartments in general which helps me stay organized. It was expensive for sure but worth the investment. I will also usually pack an extra duffel bag (medium size) just in case I end up buying a lot of souvenirs, maybe a beautiful sweater, etc. that won’t all fit into the carry-on. On the return trip home, I will check the Away suitcase, and my two carry-ons become the duffel bag and the backpack. – Caraa sling crossbody bag (small size). I’m usually more of a minimalist (and I do love Uniqlo nylon crossbody bags bc they’re lightweight and the strap is comfortable) but when traveling, the various zippered compartments on the Caraa are so useful. And if you buy a metallic colorway (I have it in silver), you can even use it as an evening bag. I’ve comfortably worn it for 10 hours straight (the strap is just wide enough that it doesn’t dig into your shoulder). And it fits nicely in my backpack so it’s not an extra carry-on item. – Davek commuter umbrella. Yes it’s pricey but after spending $20 to $30 here and there for cheaper umbrellas that broke or malfunctioned, I invested in the Davek and love it. – A packable lightweight puffer jacket in a neutral color. Mine is from Athleta that I got on an amazing sale during the holidays. It has a hood, is water/abrasion/wind resistant. – The most comfortable sneakers I’ve found are the Nike Shox TL. They look a bit edgy and they’re not low-profile so I wear them on the plane to save space. Depending on the colorway you buy, they can even work for an evening outfit. – In addition to the scarves recommendation, two other ways to add versatility to a limited number of travel outfits is through different socks and also different shoe laces for your sneakers (I like Shoe Lace Supply). Both won’t take up a lot of room in your carry-on. – I prefer to pack skirts and dresses than jeans and pants (just personal preference). I have a lightweight tulle skirt from J.Crew that I bought years ago; it’s not too voluminous and it’s lined. I roll it up in a plastic dry cleaning bag and it doesn’t take up much room, and it doesn’t really get wrinkled. I also pack long slip dresses (again, very lightweight compared to jeans) in a darker color. You can wear a t-shirt and a cardigan over it (layering is key!), and peel off the sweater if you get warm.
Love this post although it’s a little late for me. First Joanna, lesson packing tees into little squares! Currently on a transatlantic cruise and I couldn’t bring more than a couple of tees in my smallish suitcase. Coincidentally I do have my navy merino v neck pullover and my white tennis shoes. I always pack a couple of easy tee dresses (long and short-sleeved), comfy low wedge or block heel sandals, a silky cami/shorts set for sleeping (could wear cami for day) that takes up no room. For outerwear on Spring trips, my jean jacket and lady jacket type cardigan. Non-clothing, ear plugs and a tiny white noise machine! Typing this looking at a wide expanse of the Atlantic ocean and haven’t seen land for four days.
Hi Joanna, It is so nice to hear you’ll be in Paris in the spring time. The weather is slowly but surely getting nicer this weekend after a disappointing week so you’ll be able to enjoy your stay ! I absolutely love everything you’re packing, very French ! If you want to bring back some clothes without spending too much, I also recommend Monoprix. Their new spring range is really great (and for children, too!). https://www.monoprix.fr/c/nouveautes/mode/femme?start=42&sz=42 There is a shop near Le Square Trousseau, that is the one I often go to… maybe we’ll bump into each other, who knows? Bon voyage!
Just got back! Monoprix is my absolute favorite for easy clothes. I like the big Saint Germain location. I’m also obsessed with the patterned dresses at Fragonard, all about 100 euro and perfect for summer. Plus, David Hockney is at Fondation LV! Bon voyage!
Have fun! I was in Paris in January and had the best time, no plans, just wandered around, would stop at various cafes to get a glass of wine/pot of tea/cafe crème and just people watch. Highlights were my amazing haul at a pharmacy before leaving, and checking out a few locations of Bobby, an amazing vintage/consignment store—highly recommend for anyone, it’s not intimidating like I find so many vintage stores!
oooh I love your travel vibe!
i always bring a larger suitcase so i have room to bring home the clothing treasures i inevitably pickup when there
Please be mindful of us locals. You have been very vocal about the new administration, but I feel very hurt by your fellow Americans treating Europe as a giant Disneyland while trying to economically destroy our continent with tariffs. I was once reading a piece about the tariffs in a restaurant in Paris, and the Americans next to me were very intrigued. I realized the women at the table had no idea about the tariffs !! I find it so concerning and it made me feel very vulnerable
I’m going on a 7-day-cruise in the Mediterranean next weekend. Please tell me it is totally normal to overpack when traveling with a newly 3yo that just recently got out of his diapers and still has the occasional accident… We spent 4 nights away (in colder climate) last week, and my full-size suitcase was packed (with both of our clothes, but still). I felt so bad 🙈
Love the “it floats on your skin – it feels like a kiss”!
Important question! What kind of pants does one wear with over sized button down shirts? I agree, I love them. But are they only for skinny jeans or leggings? Does anyone else feel too baggy when wearing them with bootcut or baggier pants?
Button downs have been my “uniform” for many years and I love how they work with all the different pant styles. I love them best with straight leg pants/jeans (think Sofia Coppola), but am also wearing them with wide-legged (usually cropped) with a smidge of a French tuck (or some days I just go with the loose fit look). I like the baggy pant look with chunky sneakers (my faves are colorful Hoffs) or also something where you can see some skin (ankles/tops of feet) like Toms alpagartas or Birkies. A classic button down with skinny/slim jean is so easy breezy! I am leaving for Provence this week and taking several button downs to rotate with shorts and cropped wide-legged. Throw on a cardi for dinner and hoping to not have to spend too much time thinking about my outfits.
I would enjoy a travel scarf roundup.
For walking around a city, I don’t like having a huge bag or worrying about pick pockets with a backpack, but I want a water bottle to keep hydrated. So, I love a water bottle sling! Most have a pocket or two on the side which is big enough for a phone and small essentials, but I usually then also add a small sling bag or bum bag (fanny pack) worn across the chest for my phone, cards, sunscreen etc. I always like to bring a picnic cutlery set, that way I have a spoon to eat a supermarket yoghurt, and even a plastic serrated knife usually does a serviceable job of cutting up a tomato for a park picnic with some fresh bread, cheese and deli meats. I love to pack carry on only if I can, especially if the trip involves multiple destinations. Sometimes it can be tricky, but there’s a few subreddits, like r/HerOneBag, which can be super handy to get feedback and tips.
Great packing list! I always like to have a fleece zip up! No matter where I go when traveling its always cozy.. at the airport, on an evening walk, post swim, if it suddenly gets cold.. I need it!
Question for the hive: we’re heading on a month long road trip through the Midwest and Bible Belt. What are 4 books (not audiobooks) you would pack for a road trip? Since we’re not going to be staying put for anywhere for too long, I’m looking for easy reads that I can finish quickly but that I can still put my teeth into.
We’ve recommended Project Hail Mary to 14 people and have had a 100% success rate of people loving it! Don’t get hung up trying to understand all the science/math jargon—it’s more of a narrative device:)
I second Project Hail Mary if you’re into sci-fi. Red Rising is also great. For fantasy I’d recommend A Deadly Education or Fourth Wing. For regular fiction I’d recommend Tom Lake – narrated by Maryl Streep!
The Veronica Speedwell books by Deanna Raybourne are wonderful.
I loved The Heart is a Lonely Hunter on a recent road trip. Very compelling, human stories.
I was in Paris for three weeks in May last spring and I was so glad that I brought a trench coat (a classic one in navy blue). I could wear it with everything. It was bulky, but I wore in on the plane to and from Paris, so that I didn’t have to pack it. As someone else said, spring can be so unpredictable. I’ve been in Paris in April when it was hot, but last May, it was cool most of the time that I was there. Because my trench didn’t have a hood, I brought a light, small umbrella and carried it with me often. We had a few downpours and I was happy to have it. One day, it poured, then there was hail and moments later the sun came out and it was brilliantly bright. Scarves to change things up a bit.
I’m in Paris for a month at a time twice a year. My recommendations: a pair of light slippers to slip on after a long day of walking and a light nylon shopping bag to stuff in a small cross-body bag for things you might need to pick up on the way home. I’ve been traveling with a cute green leather Madewell bag; just large enough to hold your phone, wallet, etc and saves back and shoulder aches. Even on a month trip, I manage to fit everything in a carry-on. Bonne journee!
Great tips! I’m curious what brings you to Paris for a month at a time 2x a year? Sounds like the dream! :)
You inspired me JoAnna! I am a chronic over packer, and this post inspired me to very carefully pack for my weekend trip to DC….First time ever I’ve traveled cross country with one carry on suitcase!
Anyone has tipps for a light spring/summer jacket, the one you pack for chilly evenings? I would normally wear a thin puff jacket or denim or fleece, but nothing fits anymore as I am breastfeeding and my breast well, I don’t even know what cup size that’s supposed to be. I am looking for something a bit more elegant than a puff jacket (nor difficult) as I still wear leggings instead of pants…
Kudos to you for being able to wear a jacket while breastfeeding…I was such a sweaty mess that there was nothing I wanted more than to just be naked from the waist up in a cool dark room while breastfeeding lol
I like a boxy chore jacket that works open or closed. I wear one from Quince that’s cropped but also have an longer green one from Madewell that’s years old but the big pockets are flawless.
I’m nursing too and I find that the cheap shirt/jacket canvas situation at old navy is good enough to get me through while I’m this shape. I don’t want to invest because I likely won’t be this size in a year. But I also don’t want to look like a mess. And I’m constantly covered in yogurt and the canvas/denim washes well. I bet there’s a used one on poshmark for really cheap. Size down. They run big. Good luck!
For this exact purpose I am obsessed with the Varley Anset Jacket. Nicer than a puffer, but lightweight. Looks potentially fancy but also can be super casual. Water resistant, does not wrinkle, I wear it everywhere including on trips ranging from London to national parks. It’s my only “in between” jacket and I love it!
Here’s a cute one from lululemon (and this color is on sale!) https://shop.lululemon.com/p/jackets-and-hoodies-jackets/Always-Effortless-Classic-Fit-Jacket-MD/_/prod9280114?color=26458&ta=1&taterm=Always%2520effortless&tasid=4eEJgZGVg1
How about a sweater-type blazer or longer sweater/lady jacket? Very popular so widely available.
Looking for super safe and relaxing budget-friendly travel options for two adults and two tweens. I’m base in Northern California. My family members aren’t too adventurous, but also we are trying to cut expenses and save money to build up our safety net. However, my husband and I still want to travel with your kiddos. Open to all recommendations, including credit card hacks!
Vancouver B.C. might be a great option. The Canadians are so so nice, the food is great and you get some old fashioned down town vibes. Amazing nature all around and not a terrible drive from Northern California.
Definitely come to Canada. Quebec City and Montreal are like visiting Europe (also, check out Iles de Madelaine). Cottage country in northern Ontario is stunning, too!
La Quinta! Fly into Palm Springs and rent a car (or drive, it’s not terrible, but it will take 8-10 hours). There are some reasonable VRBO rentals in communities that have pools, old town La Quinta is darling and the Sunday farmers’ market is great. The weather is a nice change from the chill of NorCal. Easy grocery shopping (and a Trader Joe’s) so you can cook and eat in versus going out for every meal. But definitely go to Louisa’s for banana pancakes!
Not sure where you are in Northern California and if you’re looking to go a little further away, but I wanted to share that my husband and dog and I have road-tripped to Lassen, Redwoods national and state parks and the surrounding costal area, Fort Bragg on the coast, and Auburn near Sacramento, and had a grand time (the Redwoods coast is where I learned to love car camping and like, nature). I also think a roadtrip up the Oregon coast would be dreamy!
Yes, I second the recommendation for BC! Come visit us! 🇨🇦
St Andrews, NB in Canada – historic town, really peaceful and beautiful and right on the Bay of Fundy so great for whale watching, swimming, sailing, kayaking etc.
Drive up the Oregon coast! There are a million little beautiful spots to get out and walk, sweet little beaches, old towns…and you can find some inexpensive hotels sprinkled in little towns like Gold Beach. My husband and I live in Oregon and just picnicked our way down and back up for three days. It felt like a true getaway.
Vancouver, BC! It’s beautiful. Mountains, beaches, good food. Lots to do!
I bought a similar pair of Pumas at Famous Footwear for around $80 and I am loving them in the UK right now. The tan rubber strip keeps the front and sides clean and I’ve cleaned one tiny mark off the top. I’m such a white sneaker girl and these are game changers! I also brought gold loafers and Chelsea boots, because I’m just all about the shoes. All are comfy and stylish.
Where did you find gold loafers?
I recently went on a business trip and brought an oversized linen blazer with a soft collar, it was like chic armour and worked with business casual as well as a slouchy piece with dresses and jean shorts for air conditioning/cool nights
Of course you’ll check the weather before you leave, but Paris in the spring can be pretty changeable. I’d want a light trench coat (or something water resistant) rather than the barn jacket, because it’s much more comfortable running around a rainy city in a raincoat rather than just depending on an umbrella. Also, I second the scarf recommendations – a large silk or tissue weight square scarf can be both decorative and warm, and takes up almost no space in your bag. I even pack them in the summer for cool evenings, cold buildings, and covering shoulders.
Just got back from Lisbon, where it rained a lot. My friends and I were all super glad we packed our raincoats!
I’ve been living out of a suitcase for about 14 months (I could write a whole book on this experience lol) and packed: jeans, leggings, black tees, black tanks, a long black dress, my fave joggers, and a few other items. Some have been replaced or donated, some I still wear. The black tops, jeans, and a pair of sneaks have been worn tons.
Call for CoJ interview with Daniela?!
Yes interview please!
Will Freddie go with you? <3
I always love a navy blue sweater.
Crazy question- I’ve always been scared to go to France because I don’t speak French. I took it as a subject in middle school because I was enamored by the idea of Paris but had a very hard time with pronunciation and with the teacher (who was American for what it’s worth.) for all those who go to France- do you speak French? Is this an irrational fear?
you can absolutely feel welcome and comfortable traveling to France! many people in Paris, especially those in the service industry, speak English — even when you try to speak French, they often revert to English in restaurants and stores :) also, if you attempt “bonjour!” when you walk into a store, or “merci beaucoup” when you order something, it’s very appreciated. there are many non-french-speakers who visit Paris, and it’s 10000% fine and accepted. you will love Paris, I hope you take a trip :)
My french is also the remnants of middle school teaching! I’ve had no problems in Paris, people often speak english or you can get by fine with gestures. as long as you are friendly and trying, people are very welcoming! if you’re nervous it might be preferable to go during off season, places are much less busy and so folks are often more patient with a language barrier.
My husband and I just went to Amsterdam, Bruges, and Paris, and language wasn’t an issue at all! There are English speakers everywhere. Even if you were to have trouble communicating, someone nearby would be able to help you. I agree with Joanna that it’s nice to have a few phrases down. I don’t speak French, but I did say Bonjour and Merci Beaucoup multiple times a day.
The best way to get French people to speak English to you is to speak a little French to them :-) “Bonjour”, “Merci”, and “Au revoir” are the essentials of being polite—haul out some of those middle school phrases, throw in a “bonne journée” and you’ll be golden.
As someone who has travelled to numerous countries where I neither speak the language, nor understand the written alphabet… humans will always find ways to communicate. Any European city will be full of English speakers but even if it weren’t, I wouldn’t let this be a deterrent. After all, many non-English speakers visit the USA, why should it be any different in reverse? I would recommend – wherever you’re going – to learn to say hello, thank you, please, excuse me etc. because making this small effort communicates respect and an acknowledgment that the onus is on the visitor to adapt to local culture, not the reverse.
Greet absolutely everyone with a “bonjour” (waitstaff, concierges, the moment you enter a store) and they will immediately know a) know you’re American and b) that you’re trying.
Agree with what everyone else said. I don’t speak a lick of French and did just fine in Paris. Bonjour, merci, and a smile on your face go a long way. Download Google Translate on your phone. I use it any time I travel and there’s a language barrier. It’s got a ton of cool features, like a camera app that will translate lines of printed text for you.
Laura I’m heading to Amsterdam, Bruges and Paris by myself in a week and a half! wish I knew about some restaurants you liked in the first two cities.
Europe is full of long white skirts at the moment and I don’t know how anyone wears them without ruining them but they look great!
I’m a big fan of the oversized Oxford. Quince has my fave which is only $40. I’m also big on their 100% European Linen button down. I pair both with their Muscle Tank.
Perfect timing! Leaving for a week in France tomorrow! Bringing a bunch of basic/striped tees, a cardi that matches them all, 2 pairs of jeans, a midi floral dress, white sneakers and slip ons!
I’m traveling to Paris (staying in 11th arr.) and Antibes this summer for almost a month (mid July to early August) for some language immersion. Would love recs from locals for some good slow living and hidden gems <3 <3 Also: any recs for a good cropped linen/cotton jacket? I have a raincoat and a denim jacket and need something in between for cold but sunny PNW mornings.
Hi Eva, I got this jacket from Tommy Bahama last year, and I love it. It’s like a linen jean jacket and super versatile. I live in Denver, where it can be very cold in the spring and even summer evenings. https://www.tommybahama.com/en/Two-Palms-Linen-Raw-Edge-Jacket/p/TW510640-042?utm_medium=shopping&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=TB_PLA_GG_X_X_X_X_X_HighPriority_rSC_22344528439_175967425426_339799419324&utm_product_id=TW510640-042-M&utm_content=omnichannel&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD8E2-yzHFqIfSh04V5y82JZVRt5y&gclid=Cj0KCQjw5azABhD1ARIsAA0WFUFNEaq5eU9JzXsMeDE2RuWMkcJ2txQbWvKxoDWt5fQYIzguq1SgT7IaAgEWEALw_wcB
Eva, you’ve got to go to Shift Depôt-vente in the 11e (www.shift-store.fr). It’s a little second-hand boutique that has a beautiful curated selection at a range of prices. I always find some gems each time I go, and the Popincourt neighborhood is super cute. I also love David Lebovitz’ food recs for the 11th. (www.davidlebovitz.com) Have a wonderful time!
Recently got this jacket from Garnet Hill. It’s super cute! https://www.garnethill.com/amalfi-linen-jacket/clothing/categories/coats-jackets/694782?uniqueId=694782&isNewProduct=false&newItemBadge=false&hideNewTagFromPLP=false
On my most recent trips, I was very happy to have a tiny cross-body bag that held my phone, wallet, lip balm, and sunglasses (with a pocket for my passport in the back). I wore it under my coat. It felt secure, and I had my hands free! It was a nylon belt bag that I picked up at Costco for like $10. Also, I feel like the key to looking like a local in Europe is a giant scarf!
scarf for sure!!
We were in Paris 2 years ago in May and it was HOT. Nowhere (except the Louvre) had their AC on, including Versailles, Musee d’Orsay, and the smaller museums. But it meant I discovered French lemonade, which is a little bit like Sprite but better and it made for a lovely daily afternoon cafe habit
“Limonade” is like sprite but a “cîtron presse” is a lemonade where you add the sugar to your liking.
I just got back and the trip was lovely. I went with three friends and it was so much fun. If it is possible you should try to get a reservation at Juveniles. It is a very small wine bar/restaurant chef owned and is just delicious.
I love Juvenile. It really feels like a hidden gem
When I go to Paris, I love to pack an empty carry-on/suitcase! My plan is to spend a couple of hours at Monoprix, hunting for all the latest accessories, clothes, and jewelry.
Are you traveling with Freddy!!!
ooooooooooooooh!
I always pack carry-on (so do my husband and kids), and many years ago, I read a rule called the 5-4-3-2-1 rule. Over time, I’ve adapted it for myself to mean 5 tops (a blend of t-shirts, sweaters and blouses), 4 bottoms (jeans, pants, skirts), 3 dresses; 2 shoes, coats and purses (for shoes an everyday pair and a dress pair, for purses your everyday bag and an evening clutch and for the jackets one appropriate for the weather and a fancier one for evenings outs i.e. a leather moto jacket, etc) and finally 1 which is a splurge that one thing you just need to pack “just in case”. I always wear the everyday coat, purse and shoes on the plane. This creates such a seamless packing experience, and you truly have enough combinations to wear, whether you are gone for four days or two weeks. Plus, when you get back from your trip, you won’t have that terrible experience of too much laundry and having to put away things you never even wore! Bon Voyage!
I really love this!!
Yes!!! I recently discovered this BRILLIANT packing strategy, It’s been a game changer for this chronic over-packer. I also go with a color palette so I can mix and match all of my pieces.
Good for you! Tried to make that work for two weeks plus transatlantic cruise I’m on but just couldn’t pull it off. It’s a goal!
Don’t forget a chic silk scarf. Was just in Paris and it was such a standard, plus practical with the wind. Have a great time!
Better yet, buy one there!! 🥰🇫🇷
I’d love to know how these are worn- folded into a triangle and draped over the shoulders and knotted? rolled into a long rectangle and draped around the neck? wrapped around the neck multiple times so nothing hangs loose? I have several lovely scarves from my mother but always feel like an imposter when I wear them!
Good point Laurie!! Pack one and buy one 😉
Does anyone have experience packing a vibrator in a carry-on? Has TSA ever flagged it for inspection just for kicks? I get to spend a glorious week alone in a hotel – a perfect environment for some me time – but worry it’ll get flagged as I’m passing through security with my colleagues.
I’ve packed a vibrator several times and it’s never gotten flagged!
I have! It was totally fine! But I’ve also had TSA flag off things like my journal and a library book, so who can say?
My son is a TSA Officer and trust me, they do not flag sex toys ‘for kicks’. The stories I hear…people are something.
Flying NYC to ATL I had a decent-sized one in my carry-on and they stopped to inspect the bag. It was brief and professional and I was on my way (and grateful to be traveling alone for that lol)
Have a great time! And please report back what ladies are wearing there at the moment!
We just returned from a week in Florence (from the UK, so not as far) with a 4 and 2 year old. The airline lost both our checked bags on the way there,but luckily I had packed full outfits for everyone plus nappies in my son’s Peppa Pig Trunki carry on. My advice for everyone: if you’re flying with checked bags, ALWAYS pack one outfit (socks and underwear included) plus your makeup and toiletries in a carry on. I learned this lesson long ago but I was surprised by how many of my friends said it was a genius move that they hadn’t thought of.
Your medication too!!
I remember reading on here years ago about packing with a color scheme in mind. Whenever I go away in the summer, I pack pretty much exclusively blue and white clothes. They look great by the water and in the city, and they feel light and breezy. My personal rule is no black clothes on summer trips!
@Jo how do you wash the babaa sweater? I have a 3 year old babaa merino sweater in oceano which somehow started almost felting in areas (e.g under the arms) and doesn’t have that airy knit feel it used to.
I don’t have any Babaa stuff but am a knitter and I would recommend hand washing with a wool wash (if you have a local yarn shop they would probably carry it, or you could try an online knitting supplier like Knit Picks). It won’t undo the felting, but will keep it clean without causing more—just be sure to follow the directions carefully. Even with a wool wash, warm water + agitation = felt!
Hi Josy, I’d love to share my method for home sweater washing, which will be a long post and also probably won’t restore the sweater to its original glory – I think the aging is part of the wool sweater experience :) But here’s my recommendations. 1. Get a no-rinse sweater detergent like Soak or Eucalan. 2. Follow soap directions – I fill my bathroom sink with room temp water and about a teaspoon of Soak and put my sweater in to soak for a few hours. (2.5. I rinse a little bit even though you don’t need to) 3. Lay out 2 big fluffy towels on top of each other, then lay the sopping wet sweater on top and arrange it flat in the right shape – not stretched or wrinkled. Roll it up in the towels and leave it for an hour or 2. 4. Repeat step 3 with fresh towels. I usually leave it longer this time, maybe overnight. 5. Drape the sweater over a shower rod or lay out on another towel or some other way to give it airflow to finish drying w/o hanging it in a way that will misshape it… And that’s all! Hope that helps.
I live in Scotland and wear a lot of Scottish wool jumpers. I recommend airing jumpers in the frost, when and where possible. I did not believe it when it was first suggested to me, but it really works! If you do have to wash, then make sure to reshape the garment after and dry flat.
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I wish you’d write a post about how to navigate air travel successfully. I recently returned from a very straightforward direct flight, Rome to Boston but felt so destroyed by jet lag, time change, and nine hour flight that it took a full week to recover! How do you so effortlessly pivot between Europe and US without missing a beat?!
Feeling jet lag for a week seems normal to me.
Check out the app Timeshifter! It helps you adjust to your next timezone with timely suggestions for seeking sunlight, drinking caffeine, taking a nap, etc. in the days leading up and directly after your travel. It helped me adjust going from SLC to Amsterdam and back!
I take Magnesium Sleep-Matrix (Cyto-Matrix). It helps if I also have trouble sleeping in general.
I don’t go to bed until my usual time (locally where I am travelling). The first day, I’m a zombie. I spend as much of out it outside and on my feet as possible. The second day isn’t great but I am functioning. By the 3rd day, I’m usually acclimated. It is easy for me to do east coast time to Europe, but it worked for New Zealand and for Hong Kong from the west coast (those zombie days were brutal so I drank a lot of diet coke and “medicated” with chocolate).
Adapt to the new time zone IMMEDIATELY. No naps, eat at normal meal times, get into bed at your normal time. I find overnight flights US to Europe are helpful. Even if you don’t sleep great on planes, just go about your day when you arrive, just like you would if you were at home and had a bad night of sleep. If you can, a few days before you leave for Europe, try making minor adjustments like eating earlier, going to bed and getting up early, etc… and reverse that when you’re returning to the US. Good luck!
We’re packing for Paris, too! Plus a 10-month-old and a dog . . . Already missing the days when we could stick to carryons. If you’re looking for extra recs, don’t miss Petite Ile, Folderol, Kubri, and Oobatz!
I love the look of white or light colored sneakers – but they get dirty so fast and I can never get them clean again. at this point I wear trusty black chelsea boots between September and April and I’m pretty lost shoe-wise in the summer. How do people do it?
I embrace the grungy inevitability of white sneaks! Life goes on!
Magic eraser!
I just cleaned my white sneakers yesterday! I sprayed them with Dawn Power Wash, let them sit for a little while, scrubbed with a stiff scrub brush and hot hot water (wear rubber gloves) and then I threw them in the wash with some towels. Good as new.
Make sure they’re leather (or vegan leather) and not canvas/fabric or suede. I bought a new pair of white NB for a trip, and the suede toe cap was dirty before I even got on the plane, haha. My Adidas grand courts are bulletproof (brutal to break in but champs once I did…) and I had a cheap pair of knockoffs from Marshalls that I wore on countless trips. Someone below said magic eraser, which I second, but even a washcloth and a little hotel room soap will spiff them right up. They won’t be perfect but you can stay on top of the smudges.
All Birds or Rothy’s that you can wash!
Crep Protect Shoe Spray. Try it! I was skeptical, but am now a believer. Also, Magic Erasers.
Second the magic eraser, but also really love the Jason Markk shoe cleaner. I use it on my white Stan Smith’s and recently used it on a tote bag that said do not wash—it removed a bunch of marks! It’s works on leather, suede, nubuck, canvas, cotton, knits etc.
When I travel I cut a square of magic eraser and bring it specifically for cleaning marks off my white sneakers
Hello, Paris in May can be hot sometimes ! I would add a white pair of jeans and nice sandals. Enjoy your trip !
I just got back from two weeks at our summer place in Italy. I really regretted not bringing a pair of white jeans! Would have made it so much easier to “lighten” up a few simple outfits on the warmer days.
I just came back from a trip for which I truly did the worst packing job ever and, while it didn’t ruin the holiday, I felt the pinch of my poor planning every day I was away. I am so happy to be home, with alll of my clothes within reach, and am taking notes here for next time!
Thank you for this! I’m a bit of a wreck packing for trips and I’m always annoyed by the “you can buy it there, don’t worry” advice. Sometimes we do a bad job and have to live with our choices :P
Lol, currently traveling and feel the same pain. Will be happy to be back to my clothes with more choices and less rewearing.
Great looks ahead ! Parisians have started wearing leggings outside (everything can happen!), so you can slip one in your suitcase for added comfort if you like :)
Noooo! Am the last leggings-are-not-pants holdout? I thought my people were still out there, somewhere chic (or just old school).
I have spring/summer travel questions. I’m retiring in just a few weeks!!! and we plan to do car and camping trips more often. All my fave clothes have to air dry – how do I do that? Do I need to invest in easy care travel clothes? Any faves? And how in the heck will you pack this wardrobe and arrive wrinkle free? I think I missed some lessons on life on my way to 65!
I bring a portable steamer! My clothes get wrinkled even at home so it’s worth the suitcase space for me
I put everything in the dryer other than bras annd swimsuits and it’s fine! For camping, get some inexpensive hiking pants, they are fine in the dryer, or air dry quickly. As long as they aren’t on super high, many outdoorsy fabrics do fine in the dryer. Some of my pullovers and hiking shorts are at least 20 years old and still fine.
Air drying clothes is the norm in Australia, so I can confidently say you can just air dry and all normal regular clothes! Heavy sweaters are best to air dry laid flat though, so they don’t warp and stretch from their own weight when wet. Things like jeans take longer to air dry, so if you’ll be in a situation where you need things to definitely dry within a day, then it could be worth investing in fabrics that dry faster (i.e. wool socks instead of cotton) Re wrinkles: You could buy travel-specific clothes that are wrinkle free, but if you don’t want to buy a whole new wardrobe, I’d say just embrace it! Who cares if your clothes are a bit wrinkly when you’re camping? Life is too short to waste time ironing.
I pack a tiny, finger push spray bottle. I fill it up at the hotel with water, spray my wrinkled clothing, give it a little pull and hang over night. It’s a super great method and takes up almost no space. Looks like the spray one in this set. You can buy it at a ton of places.https://www.dollartree.com/clear-plastic-travel-bottles-3pc-sets/334192
I wish you a great trip to Paris. The weather should be nice next week, good conditions to enjoy the city!
Just went on two different trips abroad, and another one planned this summer, all solo (so wonderful!). One of the things I do is pack some things like pjs I am willing to leave behind/throw away,(other items include socks, undershirts, toiletries, books, etc). This way, when I’m done with my trip, there are fewer things to pack back and it gives me a bit more room for the souvenirs I am bringing back home. Granted, I’m not much of a shopper, so I don’t need too much more extra space. My husband always asks “don’t you want to wear your nice pjs and luxuriate in them while you’re away?” My answer is always “Nope, the best pjs are the ones that have been well worn and loved, but almost ready to go. What better way to honor them than to take them on vacation and leave them there?” Hahahaha!!
Hahaha! I’ve done this with shoes. On a recent trip, I deliberately packed sneakers that needed to be retired. I wore them for one last hurrah around France then yeeted them to make room in my suitcase for three bottles of wine, ha! And years ago I left a pair of scuffed black boots behind in Paris, to make room for French baby clothes for our pending nephew. Sacrifices must be made!
This is my technique too!! I feel very seen! If the slippers are on their last legs, the undies are serviceable but a bit worn, and a guide book can be left behind for the next guest, then I have space to bring back a few treasures. (And don’t worry, I promise I’m not leaving a huge burden of waste behind on another country!)
This is especially great if you have kids. I often bring clothes that are at the end of their life or size range for my kids and leave them behind!
Yes to this!!! Best travel adaptation I’ve made recently.
Paris is so nice this time of the year! If you have time, I think it’s lovely to grab a book and a sandwich and improvise a picnic right on the quai de Seine. It could be near Bastille by the Canal… or any quai really. Welcome to Paris and I hope I will casually bump into you at the marché d’Aligre when you get delicious strawberries! Love from Paris
This is my wish as well! Maybe a pic together so we can see our Parisian friend?!
Would also love seeing a photo of Agnes!
What do you use for a cute purse for walking around all day? I am heading to Portugal and need some ideas!
I have a LeSportsac that I have had forever (seriously, probably 25 years). TBH it’s not really my style but it is still my go to travel purse for almost any destination. Zippered, a wide strap than can be lengthened to wear cross body, small and lightweight but somehow still big enough for a wallet, phone, water bottle, and maybe even a paperback. I just came back from a trip and I packed both the LeSportsac and another purse that I felt was cuter. The cute purse never made it out of my suitcase.
I took a bag similar to this Oroton one for a couple of months in Europe and the UK and it was perfect – cross body as needed or a shoulder bag for crowded metros https://oroton.com/alice-crossbody-black/
Baggu medium crescent bag is the best. Zip inside pockets to keep things secure, can hold a ton of stuff without feeling big. I just did a week in Italy and it was perfect. Saw lots of people with the Uniqlo version, but the Baggu one is even better.
The Lululemon festival bag is perfect for travel! I have had the black with gold hardware for a few years now and it is holding up so well. I throw it in the washing machine in a linens bag after trips and the hardware still looks brand new. https://shop.lululemon.com/p/bags/All-Night-Festival-Bag-Magnet/_/prod11400091?color=3385&sz=ONESIZE
This is the perfect size, adjustable strap, and cleanable. I have the yellow and get compliments constantly! https://orilondon.com/collections/the-kennington-sling-bag
ORI London makes awesome, low-profile, crossbody bags that are sleek, but hold SO much. I can even fandangle my small Swell water bottle if I need to. I also love their small, canvas backpacks. I travel with one of each and am never disappointed.
Have so much fun; please share all the details upon your return. I’m celebrating 40 there in June, and I am using your past trips for inspo!
Of course it depends somewhat on the climate of where I am going, but nearly every trip I take a grey alpaca sweater with a roll neck that my mom knit- it is cozy and perfectly worn. Additionally, I have a multi-colored (peach/yellow/white/orange) gauzy scarf that I’ve had since I was 18 that makes it into all of my carry-on’s… that piece is probably the item I’ve traveled with the most- from London, to Israel, Denmark, and Vancouver etc – I love that it suits all climates and can be spotted in so many of my travel memories. As an aside, I love white tshirts but I never know how to keep them sparkling white over time (especially in the pits area)- they get discolored and I find myself dying the shirts other colors as a way to not waste perfectly good shirts otherwise – I typically buy Uniqlo but am wondering if it’s something I’m doing wrong with my laundry? How should I keep them looking freshly white? Thanks for any tips people might have!
Rajiv Surendra did a video about this, basically you want to only wash whites with other whites (not just lights) and add a tiny bit of liquid bluing to the rinse. Worth a try. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=R87SIgGC20k
So I found this to be a weird American problem! Happened to my partner and me when we lived in the States, but never before or since. I never really got to the bottom of it but I blamed the deodorant. Maybe try deodorant from another country for a while and see if it makes a difference?
I agree with the suggestions that you add a black tee. I would also stick in a navy one. And I tee few cotton or silk scarves so I can jazz things up a bit! Have a fabulous time-hope Freddie is going with?!?
I have been thinking about my own grief more than usual lately. My dad died almost ten years ago, and seeing my almost 10-year-old son get really into sports is another new layer to the grief. My dad loved sports, pretty much all of them, and I’m heartbroken once more thinking about what could have been – how they could have talked and played together. I also just started rereading H is for Hawk, by Helen Macdonald which is a beautiful, searing book about grief (and, fascinatingly, falconry).
I just finished reading that book! It was incredible & made me think a lot about the relationship I had with my father. It’s an excellent book. Incredibly rich language.
Sending love Mado. My Dad died ten years ago this September and the anniversary has been on my mind recently, even though it’s a few months away. I’ve had ups and downs with it over the years but there’s something that feels particularly gutting about the decade coming up. While heartbreaking that they haven’t been able to share it together, it also sounds beautiful that your son is channeling your Dad’s love for sports ❤️
Have fun!! I always love your packing lists! You’ve nailed it again
Lululemon sneaks ✅. Fav pair. Have a blast! I pack an empty suitcase and shop there. Vintage be thy game!
On my trip to Paris I popped into a second hand shop and picked a striped shirt (one of many there) and a coral colored pashmina. It fit in perfectly while there and now I think so warmly of the trip every time I wear it at home
so true. i splurged for a pair of boots in florence and wore them for 10 years. loved them.
Have a safe, pleasant journey, stay, and return. Where do you stay, if you don’t mind my asking? I’ll be curious ot know how those shoes fare since I’m in the market for reliable walking shoes.
OMG is Freddie going??
After ruining a good white t-shirt in rental’s washing machine, no more white on trips for me! I would exchange all the white for black or navy blue! :’)
So funny, I am going on a trip also and am packing so many similar items! White Ts and striped Ts (also throwing in a black T) navy sweater, floral top, sneakers! Trying to do carry on in my Away bag, I hope I can do it!!
Hope you have an amazing trip, Joanna! You mentioned a rental apartment – just curious how you navigate that when you travel (Airbnb?) especially internationally? I’ve been traveling a lot domestically this year and these are my must-have travel items: – a tennis ball for self-massage and myofascial release wherever I go! Even just stepping hard onto a tennis ball with bare or socked feet is a great release for those muscles and tendons. – Soak rinseless laundry detergent for handwashing items in a tub or large sink (plus a travel laundry bag to keep track of what’s dirty vs clean) – Aquaphor moisturizing hand mask (it’s like a sheet mask for hands) to rehydrate my hands after a flight!
Amen to the tennis ball; if I don’t have it I’m crippled after all-day sitting. I also bring PT bands, weightless, take up no space.